My Experiences with People - Robin

Vikram was the first person I spoke to when I joined Infosys and he introduced me to other 2 guys Uthej and Robin. Till date Uthej, Vikram and Robin have got indissoluble relationship called Friendship.

Though it took almost a year’s time to for Uthej, Vikram (both of them are friends from their 12th class) and me to attain the bonding we have today. We bonded more and more day by day. However, it was not the case with Robin – from day 1 I found a very good and interesting person in him.

I was in an impasse – I have met so many people at Infosys and I have learnt something from each of them in some or the other way – and the question was who should be the first episode of the serial. And finally I came to a conclusion that it should be Robin because in the first year of my career – I had to face many ups and downs in both professional and personal life. And it was Robin – who was there beside me always supporting me.


Robin – this name was very famous on the floor for his pranks, flirty nature and humor. Very thin but stylish – he knew how to carry his personality positively. Very jovial person – no girl would say no to his proposal – just for the fact he speaks so sweet and looks handsome [only when he is in office and out for a date with girls ;-)].



To be frank – I always loved to wear simple cotton Kurta or casual shirts and denim jeans and it is the only way I used to feel comfortable. The tough time started when I had to follow the formal dress code at the Infosys. But when I was with Robin – the way he used to carry himself impressed me and more or less I started imitating him in terms of dressing. And today I am more than comfortable in formals [first preference is always Kurta and denim ;-)] than casuals.


Whatever is the situation – he knew to keep his tempers cool. It was the time when both of us had a major issue at work just after completion of 1 month in the company [which I can not disclose – people who have seen it know it better]. The Robin’s issue was resolved in next 10-15 days but the issue I had continued for almost 3-4 months. During this period I had lost my hope of continuing with this job – but it was him who always stood beside me, consoled my depressed mind.

I had fell in love with one girl and thought that she too loves me [the way she used to be with made me think that way]. But in fact she considered me to be one of her good friends and even today she is a good friend of mine. One day she made it clear that she does not love me and it took me to a situation where I felt that is the end of life. [Even today I laugh at myself for being so foolish in this regard :-).]. Again it was Robin, who came to the rescue – it took just one weekend to get me out of this situation. He has that magical power of making fun of himself and humor which can take anyone out of melancholy.


At work we were known for our friendship – and credit for its popularity goes to Robin. We both had similar looks and if somebody sees us for the first time would call us brothers and the intimacy we had made it more obvious.

Two aspects of life that I love the most were introduced to me by Robin and they are:

• It does not matter whether you are good looking or not – it is in your own hands how you present yourself.


• Grin or frown - be happy and accept things as they are. Enjoy the life with pleasure. Do not waste your precious moments of your life worrying about things which are out of your control.

Robin is a person whom I cannot forget in my life even if I get hit by amnesia – not because he is a leader or achiever or a celebrity – for a simple fact that he is a wonderful human being.

Presently, he is in Dubai working for Ras Al Khaimah. I wish you All the Best Brother!!!

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I spent most of my tenure with this team

Photo by: Ganesh (left top corner pic)

4 years in one company is a long time – at least for people from my generation. Amongst the people who joined Infosys with me; most of them have left Infosys to make a career of their own choice. But from day one of my career at Infosys I got a lot of opportunity to meet several people. I learnt new things from their acts – either good or not so good.



I learnt from my own mistakes, I learnt from my managers, got their guidance at the right time to do right things. I learnt things from others mistakes, I learnt from others success, I learnt to take a decision in a wise way watching my managers taking decisions. I reported to 4 managers (only!?) till date in my 4 years journey.

All the 4 had their own good’s and bad’s. All 4 of them have always tried grooming me, making
me a great professional. Sometimes I failed and most of the times I got succeeded. Some looked arrogant, some looked cool, some looked lazy, some looked foolish – but every decision they made were intelligent and smart enough to make the team stronger, bigger and built THE TEAM.

My colleagues – some became good friends – some are life time friends – some opportunistic – some were never friends but good colleague to work with. Met my best of critics here and they always tried to find good person in me. Majority of the times, in my life, I was always called – the Khadoos and people still call me that. And I agree to it. That is how I was born, that is how I was grown and that is how I made my identity. But my friends, critics and especially the team I was handling (Field Sales West and Cross Market) taught me to be Khadoos only when it is needed. They brought a lot of maturity in me.

Infosys – the founders – especially NRN who had always inspired me, his one thought out of the box and bring a social reform in India made me join Infosys and lean things in this management school. Now I am confident enough to bring the awareness among the young India (who is accessible to me at least).

This blog is an effort to reach out to people and share my experiences with people I met in Infosys and their experiences which they shared with me. Majority of my writing will be around the professional life of these people and not personal, some personal aspects which I feel can be shared I will share it you all after I get a consent from the related person.

Most of the experiences are been already inked on paper. But not getting sufficient time to publish them online and I am struggling a lot to put them in an order. So there would be some delay in publishing these experiences. Please bear with me!! But never hesitate to comment on my thoughts.